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ok, doei.

Ok fine, if you don’t like me enough to start a relationship or whatever fine. But in gods name have the decency to tell me. Especially after the message I sent you saying that I was insecure about what we were doing. Now you have ignored me for almost a week, I don’t think you have the ability to think about other people because a normal person would not act this way. I tried so hard to get you to talk to me, I even sent you a message asking to reply this time. But nothing is working. And now I am just so angry, angry at you for thinking you could get away with hurting me like this. You know what, just forget about it. Maybe you’ll tell me someday what the hell was going through your head, but maybe I’ll never know. Luckily I am not doubting myself anymore, I know this wasn’t my fault, but that there is something wrong with you. I won’t shed anymore tears, I am walking away in order to protect myself. It’s not me, it’s you. 

"Breathe. You’re going to be okay. Breathe and remember that you’ve been in this place before. You’ve been this uncomfortable and anxious and scared, and you’ve survived. Breathe and know that you can survive this too. These feelings can’t break you. They’re painful and debilitating, but you can sit with them and eventually, they will pass. Maybe not immediately, but sometime soon, they are going to fade and when they do, you’ll look back at this moment and laugh for having doubted your resilience. I know it feels unbearable right now, but keep breathing, again and again. This will pass. I promise it will pass."

- Daniell Koepke   (via obriens)

(Source: internal-acceptance-movement)

"I’ve been hurt so bad and I still love so hard. I admire my heart for that."

- Alexandra Elle, Words from a Wanderer (via silentious)

(Source: mourningmelody)

"

If they don’t reply to your texts — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t call you — they’re not interested in you.

If they forget your birthday — they’re not interested in you.

If they’re hung up on their ex — they’re not interested in you.

If they’re obsessed with being single — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t want to meet your friends — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t want you to meet their friends — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t ask questions about your life — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t tell you things about their life — they’re not interested in you.

If they only speak to you when they want to have sex with you — they’re not interested in you.

If they only have sex with you when they’re drunk — they’re not interested in you.

If they say “should we just keep this between us?’ after you have sex with them — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t have sex with you — they’re not interested in you.

If they can always find a psychobabble rationale about who “I am” or “you are” or “we are” as reason why you can’t be together — they’re not interested in you.

If they have said for more than six months that they would like to be with you “BUT” — they’re not interested in you.

And if you still need convincing — think of it this way. Think of what the real day-to-day of life is taken up by. Life is birthday parties at terrible pubs. Life is losing your credit card and the annual Melbourne Cup sweepstake in the office. Life is hen’s nights, bucks’ nights, sitting on the phone for three hours to get U2 tickets and not getting them, the apartment upstairs flooding your house, interval training, calorie counting, cancer scares, illegal mini cabs, Secret Santa, rail replacement buses and Dido albums. Dogs die, cars crash, bin liners break, contracts end, curtain rails collapse, trains get delayed, football teams lose. Divorce happens and so do earthquakes and so does An Audience With Michael Bublé. Landlords put rent up, phones get stolen and the supermarket often completely runs out of hummus.

Now, taking all of the above into account — you look me dead in the eye and tell me the truth. Do you really have enough spare energy to pursue someone who isn’t interested in you? Do you really want to waste any more time on top of all of that? No. Me neither. So give it up, my friend. It’s a loser’s game. Delete their number. Don’t go on any more dates with them. Stop lurking their Facebook page. Feels good, doesn’t it?

"

- Dolly Alderton (via spvandi)

(Source: gaslightgoodbye)

"Either be groovy or leave, man."

- Bob Dylan (via jaimelannister)

"Everything is temporary."

- 3 words that completely changed my life once I fully accepted them  (via bl-ossomed)

(Source: lunacrystals)

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love."

- Neil Gaiman (via scrlett)

(Source: cuizzo)

silohouettes:

The difference between period pains and getting kicked in the balls is that one is a compulsory monthly event and the other one is probably because you were being a dick.

(Source: simplefoetus)

disheartens:

I hope you fall in love with a man with good music taste and a jawline stronger than your wifi connection

"caught between a strong mind, and a fragile heart."

- (via purest-evil)

basically

(via thekhallafa)

"Maybe it won’t work out. But maybe seeing if it does will be the best adventure ever."

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(via unenergetic)

I actually love this
It’s so comforting

(via u-nprecedented)

(Source: the-taintedtruth)